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Unbearable Roaring, Screaming,Yelling, Whinning, Biting,Hitting, Head Slamming and Things Throwing
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PARENTING WITH LOVE AND LOGIC - ADVICE on undertanding the toddler and HOW TO DEAL WITH TANTRUMS AT HOME and IN PUBLIC AREAS in SECONDS!!!

Seize back the control of your household with a practical common sense approach that really works with toddlers tantrums.
Being upset and with your blood pressure going through the roof , will be a matter of the past .
Put Into practice these easy-to-learn fun techniques and you  parents are back in control!!!. 
Discover and make use immediately these simple secrets of discipline which will work with toddlers and in through the teens.

Three simple rules for being a cool parent in a hot situation:
 1) take good care of yourself by setting firm limits through the use of enforceable statements,
2) offer choices instead of demands whenever possible, and
3) allow empathy and consequences to teach the lesson.

Discipline with love and logic is a practical, down-to-earth, common sense approach to working with kids that leaves parents and kids liking each other.  It's just the ticket for the extreme demands of parenting

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Dear Lion Tamer MUM And DAD,

Your toddler's second tantrum of the day shows no sign of stopping, and supersonic, ear-shattering, teeth-jarring screams pierce the air. Your first instinct is to run away and join the circus, but of course this isn't a real option. There must be a better way.

Tantrums range from:

• whining
• crying
• screaming
• kicking
• hitting
• hair pulling
• biting
• breath holding

During the kicking-and-screaming chaos of the moment, tantrums can be downright frustrating. They're equally common in boys and girls and usually occur from age 1 to age 5.

Kids' temperaments vary dramatically — so some kids may experience regular tantrums, whereas others have them rarely. Imagine how it feels when you're determined to program your DVD player and aren't able to do it, no matter how hard you try, because you can't understand how.

Do you swear, throw the manual, walk away,
and slam the door on your way out?

That's the adult version of a tantrum. Toddlers are also trying to master their world and when they aren't able to accomplish a task, they often use one of the only tools at their disposal for venting frustration — a tantrum.

How Many Toddler Temper Tantrums Have you Experienced?

What Do You Do When Temper Tantrums Begin? Do You Ever Feel Tired, Frustrated or Overwhelmed  With Toddler Temper Tantrums? 

You are out shopping with your toddler in the supermarket. He or she has spied a toy that you do not intend to buy. Soon, you find yourself at the centre of a gale-force temper tantrum. Everyone is looking at you, and your face is burning with embarrassment.

Could you have prevented and stop the tantrum ?

Let's face it, today’s parents are increasingly under pressure to succeed both at work and at home.

Being a parent to a toddler is tough and demanding. 

 

 

"Had Immediate Results" Hi Dan, I did download your book and starting reading it. I have started implementing the advice and had immediate results. I also downloaded, and printed the 10 common mistakes parents make with their children. I intend to use the advice there as well. Thank you so much! Cheers, Lisa

The fact that at toddler stage and they being unable to communicate, you can never really understand what is going on inside your child’s head. 

With this in mind, you need to understand your toddler’s behaviour........

…..let alone be able to control their behaviour. 

This expectation can drain you emotionally and physically and make you feel completely useless as a parent. 

If you are a stay at home mum, you have to cope and experience on a daily, hourly or sometimes even minute by minute basis ......

......your toddler’s tantrums and he/she may hit out at you , kick , shout, scream and break the furniture

And most of the time you have no idea why they are doing it.

………you feel on a constant edge waiting for the next crisis to explode.

But you have to diffuse the situation before it escalates into a dangerous situation.

This daily routine and also the embarrassing public tantrum, coping with explosive situations and worrying endlessly about your child and the rest of the family can put an unbearable strain on you………

……there are times when you think that you can no longer carry on as a parent

Please be aware of these common mistakes, and learn how to avoid them!

Common Parenting Mistakes (that actually make things worse… some of these may surprise you!) Do You...   Negotiate or keep trying to talk it out?   Try to bribe your child (with goodies) into good behavior?   Get down on your child’s level?   Show your frustration and hope it will help?   Threaten to take away something they look forward to?   Yell at them?   Spank them?   Refuse to give them what they want?   Give them what they want? or...   Give them what they want when they demand it?   Plead, Beg, Discuss & Argue with them?   Fight with them to go to time out?   Try to soothe them?   Listen to a neighbor or friend who really didn’t have       the same problem?   Seek help from anyone who has an opinion on tantrums?   Read books by a self-proclaimed parenting experts?

With the common mistakes in mind. Questions many a parent asks:

 

• Are There Ways To Prevent Tantrum?
  
  
• What Is The Best Way To Handle Tantrums?
  
  
• What Do You Do When They Have A Temper Tantrum In Public?
  
  
• What To Do With A Sleep Deprived Child?
  
  

HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF YOU KNOW EXACTLY HOW TO STOP TEMPER TANTRUMS

• Would you like more fun and less stress
• Enjoy quality time with your toddler
• Bring back the romantic times

"Your book will be our life jacket out of drowning" Hi Dan, Yes Thank you I have already read your book and are rereading it. I had a situation the other day and knew I had read about it, but couldn’t remember how to deal with it. (I did nothing as I need to get it right). Your book certainly seems to be exactly what has happened to our family, and will be our life jacket out of drowning. This week-end was the best week-end we have had as a family for a long time, so here’s to the future.I know I have a long way to go when I was in the car with the kids and I asked them to say something nice about each other, and then something nice about Dad. (Mike wasn’t there). All Jayden could say was he was good at taking things. I reminded him how Dad came into his room and asked him about his day yesterday, and he agreed that he liked that. A Lot of hard work to do, but there is light at the end of the tunnel. THANK YOU so much! Kind Regards, Alesha Long

 

 

 

Discover the secrets in may be 2 or 3 hours, that is how long it will take for you to read the ebook and you will learn:

• How to control tantrums and the reasons why temper tantrums occur
• How to avoid the same critical errors that most parents make when they are trying to stop tantrums
• Steps that must be taken to get your toddler to stop throwing tantrums and
• How to manipulate the situation – understand the ingredient causing tantrum
• Techniques to eliminate temper whining and other annoying antics
• How to analyse specific tantrums and design solutions
• How to get your toddler to go to bed without complaining, arguing or fighting.

Every parent would endure frustrations with their toddler’s behaviour. It is stressful.

As a result, almost all of us would find ourselves venting our frustrations threatening, bribing or shouting at our kids just to get them to do as they are told.

Such an environment is not good on the kids nor is it good on ourselves as parents.

"No fuss, No struggle " Hi Dan, Yes, thank you…we have downloaded it and even started practising some of the strategies and believe it or not it worked this morning….no fuss, no struggle, no engaging in power struggles… ..will keep you posted on our progress. THANK YOU! Sandra Shatilla.

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"Your book is a lifesaver " Hi Dan, Yes Thank you I have already read your book and are rereading it. Thanks for your continuing support.Your book has been a lifesaver. We have been trying new techniques with our children and it is working.As you know it is very easy to slip back into old habits - shouting etc. but we will keep trying!!! MANY THANKS Again! Kind Regards, Karen

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PS One thing I forgot to mention. Like you I am a parent.
And like you, the toddlers have acted up at times where they have been testing. They are no angels.

So for this reason, I feel motivated to put together these techniques to share it with others to cope with the temper situation.

You hear screams and howls! You watch fist flail and feet kick. Overwhelmed by tension, confusion or helplessness you think, Oh no! Another temper tantrum! What do I do now?"

You may be relieved to learn that you are not alone in being bombarded with temper tantrums. Great fury from small beings is common from the second year of life through age four. There is good news! Some simple techniques can help during this period of development.

The first step is to understand which kind of tantrum is in force. Is the tantrum manipulative, verbal frustration, or temperamental? Manipulative tantrums occur when the child does not get her own way. It will stop when it is ignored. The child erupts, the parent calmly walks away. Before long the tantrum subsides, and the child sobs into contrition. Some parents prefer to remove the child to her room, "When you are through with your tantrum, you may come back and join us."

Young children don't actually plot out, "Okay, I'm not getting my own way, so I'll throw a fit." They fall apart without thinking. But if the parent gives in to stop the tantrum, the behavior is rewarded and reinforced, leading to tantrum blackmail. Unless the child is hurting himself or another, explain why you cannot satisfy your child's desire and offer an alternative. Beyond that, grit your teeth, breathe deeply, and try to think of something pleasant, while occupying yourself with an activity.

Ignoring is difficult if you are on an outing. If you are at the park or a friend's house, explain why you couldn't satisfy the request, and bring the child home. "Climbing the spiral slide is not safe. You could get hurt. When you scream and yell, we have to go home. We'll come again another day." The grocery store is the most challenging time to deal with a manipulative tantrum. Step out of the checkout line temporarily with your child, "Excuse me, I need to deal with this . Go ahead of me, please." Ignore the looks of others. If they haven't been through this ordeal, they've never had children. Their approval is irrelevant. Try offering your child another alternative; if that fails, explain that you will wait with the child until she is back in control. Unless you want to replay this scenario on each shopping trip, do not give in to the demand. As you plan your next shopping trip, let your child know that you will be going alone. After your child has missed one shopping excursion, try again. Before departing, explain your expectations, "I am going to the grocery store. You may go with me, but we won't be buying you anything. However, you may push the basket ."

A second type of tantrum is the verbal frustration tantrum. These tantrums occur when the child knows what she wants but lacks the verbal skills to communicate clearly. Frustration boils over, and the drama begins. Ignoring these tantrums makes the child even more frustrated. Validate the anger by helping your child label her feelings. Then problem-solve: "You are feeling mad and pulling at your stomach. I wonder if that belt it too tight?" If you are lucky, your child will nod yes, and you can offer help. "We can loosen that belt." If you guessed wrong, ask the child to show you what is bothering her or to point to the problem. Verbal frustration tantrums subside as children's communication skills improve.

A third type of tantrum occurs when the child's frustration level reaches the rage stage, and he becomes totally out of control, falling apart emotionally. This is the

temperamental tantrum. The child may be too tired or tremendously disappointed. As with verbal frustration tantrums, temperamental tantrums are seldom cured by ignoring. The child can rarely gain control alone. Feeling irritable, cross and excitable is scary, confusing and disorienting for children. It is difficult to concentrate and to regain control. Even if they don't ask for help, these children need it. The following techniques can help your child regain composure.

Take a deep breath and try to remain calm yourself.

Always validate that your child is indeed angry. "That makes you very angry, doesn't it?"

Encourage your child to verbalize her feelings and desires. "Use your words to tell me you are angry. Tell me what you want." Putting feelings and desires into words is empowering for children and helps them to understand their frustration.

Acknowledge what your child does or does not want. "You are ripping off that sweater. You can tell me with words that you don't want to wear it." Nothing escalates anger faster than having it discounted. "Of course, you don't hate the sweater that Grandma knit for you. See how pretty it is!"

Offer an acceptable alternative choice: "I won't buy candy, but you can decide on whether you want fish crackers or a banana."
One or more of these additional strategies can come in handy:

Find a way to say "yes!" Avoid "No! You may not have candy!" Try "Yes, you may have something to eat as soon as we get in the car. You decide if you want fish crackers or a banana."

Hold your child and give loving hugs.

Offer verbal reassurance: "You are upset, but you will recover." "When you calm down, we can think of something to make you feel better."

If your child cannot stand being touched when upset, remain close while uttering reassuring phrases. "Your anger has gotten out of control. I will help you calm down."

If your child is being aggressive, restrain her gently but firmly. "You are feeling angry but you don't need to hit. Use words to say you are mad."

Encourage your child to take some deep breaths: "Take a big breath and blow all your mad into this pretend balloon." Expand your hands to emulate a swelling balloon. Repeat this a few times, blowing more pretend balloons.

Help your child find a means of comfort. A special blanket or toy brings comfort to some children, while others seek out a favorite person. "You are upset that I must leave. I know you would like to come with me, but my job is to go to work, while your job is to stay at school. Let's take your blanket and find Teacher Jill to be with you."

Use a distraction such as a song, a book, or a favorite activity. One teacher has success by singing a song to the child on her lap as she draws a "Feel Better Picture:" "I am drawing a feel better picture for Joshua. Here's a green dot on Joshua's picture. A yellow dot goes here." As Joshua begins to show some interest, she sings, "Now where shall I put my red dot?" Before long Joshua is directing where the dots go by pointing to the page. When the teacher senses the time is right, she encourages Joshua to draw the dots himself.
Tantrums can be as hard on parents as they are on children. Evaluating the situation at a nontemper time can strengthen coping skills.

Analyze the outbursts to find some patterns: Are the tantrums occurring at a special time of day? Do they occur more in certain locations or when a particular person is around? What has happened right before the tantrum?

Take preventative steps based on your analysis. If your child frequently has a fit leaving school, arrive early to spend some time with her in an activity. Since children react negatively to rushing, prepare your child for transitions and allow adequate time. "In five minutes it will be time to gather up your things and go home. This is the time to finish your project." If your child is often irrational before dinner, decide if she is hungry or wants your attention. Offer a wholesome snack while you are fixing the meal, or let her help you fix the meal. If tantrums occur often at bedtime, consider whether she is getting enough rest. Perhaps bedtime should be earlier before total exhaustion is reached. Are activities before bed over stimulating?

Evaluate honestly how you react when your child goes into tantrum mode? Do you lose your cool and become angry?

Plan your most effective means of controlling your own reactions to the tantrums. It is not easy to stay calm when your child is carrying on forcefully. Try talking silently to yourself. "I don't like this outburst; it makes me feel angry, but I don't have to lose my temper, too. I can model calmness for my child. We can get through this." Some parents count to ten or twenty, some parents sing or whistle to gain control; some parents take a few deep breaths. Experiment until you find a techniques that works for you.

Talk to other parents and get tips from them.

Remember that when you lose control, it is doubly hard for your child to gain composure.

If your child's tantrums are extreme and frequent, if you are finding it difficult to control your own anger, or if abuse is involved or even a temptation, get some outside help.